239 Days in America

A Social Media Documentary following 'Abdu'l-Bahá in 1912

May 22, 1912
Boston, MA
Storify Feature

“You Can Kill Me as Soon as You Like,” She Said

THE CAKE COLLAPSED in the oven the first time, so they gathered around the second cake. Sixty-eight candles stuck out of its moist surface. Three flags decorated it: an American flag, a Persian flag, and a British flag. “It was the wish of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá to have a flag of every country on the cake,” the Boston Herald wrote, “as he is universal, and considers every country his own, but there was not room for all.” ‘Abdu’l-Bahá lit the first candle, and then asked the guests to take turns lighting the rest. It was his birthday.

On his second day in Boston, a hundred guests had gathered to celebrate at the home of Alice Breed. But ‘Abdu’l-Bahá left the party early. He never celebrated his birthday because, on the day he was born, something else had also happened, which he considered to be far more important.

‘Abdu’l-Bahá’s mother, Asiyih, gave birth to him in Tehran. But early that morning in Shiraz, a city 440 miles due south, a young man who called himself the “Báb,” meaning “The Gate,” had set in motion Persia’s greatest upheaval of the nineteenth century, by declaring himself a messenger of God. Within nine years, mobs throughout the country, instigated by religious leaders and aided by the Persian military, had slaughtered 20,000 of his followers and had executed the Báb by firing squad.

Among them was a woman named Táhirih. Three days earlier, ‘Abdu’l-Bahá had spoken to an audience of suffragists at the Metropolitan Temple in New York. What few of them knew was that, when he was just three of four years old, he used to sit on Táhirih’s lap in his father’s house in Tehran. She was the first women’s suffrage martyr.

Táhirih accepted the teachings of the Báb in her twenties, to the consternation of her father and her husband, and became one his most fearless and brilliant advocates. She was a poet, renowned for her learning and her skill in argument. At a conference near the village of Badasht, in 1848, she shocked her fellow believers by appearing before the all-male gathering without a veil. One of them felt so scandalized that he slit his own throat.

By imposing this new image of equality on the Bábís, Táhirih forced them to make a critical break with the past.

On her way back to Tehran she was arrested, sent to the capital, and brought before the king, Násiri’d-Din Sháh. If she would only renounce the Báb and return to Islam, His Imperial Majesty told her, he would make her his bride. She turned him down with a poem:

Kingdom, wealth, and power are for thee,
Beggary, exile, and loss are for me.
If the former is good, it’s thine.
If the latter is hard, it’s mine.

They imprisoned her for four years.

The day before they killed her, the Sháh summoned her again. Again she rebuffed him. They strangled her with a scarf and threw her body down a well. The Times of London reported her death on October 13, 1852. She was thirty-six years old.

Táhirih remained defiant until the end. “You can kill me as soon as you like,” she said, as she faced her murderers, “but you cannot stop the emancipation of women.”


The Tahirih Justice Center, in Washington, DC, works to protect immigrant women and girls seeking justice in the United States from gender-based violence.


  • Tony Bristow-Stagg

     I just posted this same quote back a couple of articles ago 🙂

    I named my daughter after Tahirih.

    What an amazing Woman and a Disciple of the Bab no less.

    Regards Tony

  • Anne Perry

    We can well understand the zeal of Alice Breed and others in wanting to celebrate Abdu’-Baha’s birthday–and His own discomfort in doing so. But, since the cake was there and the crowd was eager, He found a way to include the guests and make a point about internationalism. I find it interesting that the

    BOSTON HERALD made a comment on it:  “It was the wish of
    ‘Abdu’l-Bahá to have a flag of every country on the cake, as he is universal,
    and considers every country his own, but there was not room for all.”

  • Robertahodgin

    Wow, what an account of a heroine, an inspiration for us all.

  • Trish Vance-Conron

    Amazing Courage and Faith!!

    Tahirih’s courage continues on today in many women all over the world who continue to fight for justice, working hard to change out dated laws affecting women and children.

    She was a Light in the Darkness!  It is still shinning!

  • Dean Hedges

    Grandeur.Mercy.169. ….  We, the people of America, in order to form a more perfect union,  do hereby promise to promote peace by rejoicing with the Oneness of mankind …. happy birthday ‘Abdu’l-Bahá’ … our wish for Thee is for you to help us see our Persian peace flag waving free …. longue vie à la Déclaration

  • Jrspreso

    a fine summation – and i like the inclusion of info. about the Tahirih Justice Center

  • Karridine

    Sometimes I fear my feet of clay might propel me, screaming, toward the door of the tent as blood wells from my newly-slashed throat, because of the COURAGE of heroines like Tahirih…

  • http://www.doittennis.com/shoes/ Ctaghdiri

    Amazing that the first woman to give up her life for women’s rights was a Persian Baha’i. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1286326614 Alexandria Wolf

    What an astonishing story.  Thank you for sharing it.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=659505440 Marie Green

    Táhirih remained defiant until the end.”  What an amazing woman!  She knew full well the meaning of her life and to live any other way was sinful to her.  I can respect that fully.  Thank you, 
    Abdu’l-Bahá, for bearing your soul. I will always remember 
    Táhirih’s sacrifice. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/lina.smithson Lina Smithson

    Tahirih’s sacrifice gives us strength!

  • Hari

    a celebration he did not want taking attention from the really important and flags flying that gave the wrong impression ignoring the big picture the spiritual message, yes they both are treated badly by those who love them

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